Friday, April 22, 2011

books that inspire: heaven is for real


Even though this book isn't directly about parenting, I think it is a must-read for every mom. Not only does it give us a glimpse of heaven and of the magnificent, loving God we serve, but it is a great tool to help our children tap into the realities of heaven as well, all the while drawing their hearts and minds closer to Jesus.

So, what are you waiting for? Go get this book, grab your Bible and a box of kleenex and dive in!




Thursday, April 21, 2011

Tips and Tricks: A Soft Answer

The scriptures say that a soft answer turns away anger and I have found this to be true.
The following excerpt is taken from Jim Bob and Michelle Duggars book The Duggars: 20 and Counting!: Raising One of America's Largest Families--How they Do It that encouraged me to use a gentle voice even when I feel angry.


"The Wisdom Booklet [part of Michelle's homeschool curriculum] advised that when you feel anger starting to well up, you lower your voice instead of raising it. I thought, Okay, Lord. I can do that - with Your help. When the next opportunity came to put it into practice, I was amazed at the difference it made. I lowered my voice to almost a whisper, and our children noticed a much calmer mommy. Instantly I knew that God's Word is true: by using a soft voice, I was learning to turn away from anger."

- Michelle Duggar, mother of 19

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

The privilege of motherhood

Some say motherhood is a chore, a duty, even a drudgery, yet motherhood is a beautiful privilege. It is God handing down gifts from heaven - tiny persons He loves and treasures. Such an honor to be entrusted with the care of those intricately, tenderly, delicately woven together by the hands that cradle the world. Yes, every child is a gift. Motherhood is indeed a privilege.

Monday, February 28, 2011

Paul with his boys skating on the frozen creek. He is an incredible dad.

Random

When I looked out my living room window this morning and saw bright green pops of grass I called the boys over and showed them. They informed me that they'd already seen the green grass yesterday when they were "planting oats" as pioneers. Elijah is currently reading the Little House on the Prarie Book about Almanzo's childhood. He gets bursts of inspiration, "pauses" the book, grabs his coonskin cap and his brother and leads out in an adventure. Yesterday Elijah brought a bucket into the kitchen and filled it with apples and oranges. Said he'd need a bucket 'o fruit for all the work he'd be doing "cause pioneers, all they do is work, work, work; and I'm a pioneer". I was tempted to steer the working pioneer into his room didn't have the heart.

Joel came inside first, stripped off his boots, his jacket, shook his head and said, "Whew, good thing I brought my knife. There sure is lots-a bears out there." No doubt he single-handedly killed at least 20 bears, saving the farm, the fields and the family. Yet all in a day's work.

Elijah came in later and took off his coat slowly. Indeed, no words necessary for this pioneer. Strength yet exhaustion seeped from every pore. It was a wonder to me how he managed to play the WII after such a day.

A week ago Paul and I took the boys on an adventure after breakfast. We bundled up then set off into the woods. We were running away, you know, and we had to survive in the woods. Our journey to find the perfect place to camp for the night consisted of climbing over rocks and fallen trees, sliding under barbed-wire fences, crossing streams, climbing giant hills and walking "for miles" through rough pasture-land. Paul and I traded off carrying little Izaac who was pleasantly amused with both the walking and the climbing. At one point, our inspiration was momentarily quenched when we saw a distant highway through the bare trees, but thanks to Paul's heroic spirit we bounced back. Finally we found the perfect place to camp: a deep, dry, rocky creek bed with walls of sand and clay and a nook below exposed tree roots for shelter. Paul and I sank into the soft, cool dirt walls and watched the boys dig, climb, throw, hit, stab, stomp, grunt and growl. By the time we made it home I had blistered feet, the boys fell into a coma (nearly) and Paul was... well, perfectly fine. We all agreed it was by far the best adventure we'd ever had as a family.

Right now Izaac is standing on a stool at his bedroom window, banging it and yelling something about "help". I'm going to go get "the stinker" down.

Well, I completely lost my train of thought concerning what I'd intended to blog about next (and I'm still losing it this very moment as Izaac begs for more "na" - snack). He is SO hilarious. And not just because he's my child. He does things on purpose to make us laugh. And it works.

I have been extremely busy lately but have enjoyed it because God has been continually putting His fire on my heart to love Him. A while back I committed to read ten chapters a day in the new testament and to dialog with God about what I'm reading and it's literally the very thing that keeps me sane and keeps me from feeling like giving up - it's keeping my heart alive and I love it! I love Him! The more I know Him the more I realize He is everything good and He has more than enough strength to make up for my weaknesses.

This past Saturday we started the Children's Equipping Center (CEC) and it was awesome! We first had our instrument workshops (bass, guitar, drums, keyboard) then took Psalm 43:3 Oh, send out Your light and Your truth! Let them lead me; let them bring me to Your holy hill and to Your tabernacle, made up motions for it, explained to the kids what it meant and taught them how to sing and pray it. Then we did a worship set. Kids sang on the microphones, prayed and it was powerful. We prayed it over orphans in Swaziland, Africa and over our own hearts, that God would send out His light and His truth and lead us to Himself. Everyone was so energized. I can hardly wait until next Saturday!

Homeschool is going great. We found a large homeschool group that meets every Friday from 9a-12p and the boys each have three classes that they really like.
This school year have learned a TON in math (McRuffy, Grade K) and Joel is reading beginner books. It has been more rewarding than words can express to have homeschooled them this year. I look forward to many more years of teaching them at home and watching them learn as well as play together and go on adventures. I have been more consistent than I thought I would be this year yet less than I would like to have been, next year I know I will need more structure and a separate place for a school room. I am thinking of turning the upstairs room into the schoolroom. For now, we're working at the table (haha, I know I said I didn't want to do that) but those desk things in the living room were not working. They tip over too easily and are not the right height. The table will just have to do. Despite all the ups and downs, we've had a great year so far and I'm so thankful. It's unquestionably rewarding and I'm grateful for this opportunity. So grateful.





Friday, January 14, 2011

My gluten-free baby

It's going on two months now since Izaac began a strict, gluten-free diet and we've yet to see any changes in his skin. At one point, his skin cleared up almost completely after using a medicated cream and what a marvelous week that was! No scratching! None. He was able to toddle around the house bare-footed and lie still during diaper and outfit changes and play with toys in the bath all without feverish, uncontrollable scratching. But since regular use of a steroid cream on a baby is potentially harmful we have gone from clear skin right back to where we began (head-to-toe red, scaly, scratch-till-he-bleeds eczema), even with twice-daily applications of thick, sticky lotion. Seeing how much he suffers with it brings me to tears some days, knowing nothing we're trying is working. The next step is to take him to an allergist to see if we can pinpoint what is causing the eczema and to take him off dairy and see it that makes a difference. I am going to keep him on a GF diet, as trying as it is, because I've heard other opinions that say it can take up to six months to notice a difference.

Apart from the eczema, Izaac is an indescribable light and joy to this family - he has an outgoing, loving personality and it is infectious!

Random Christmas memory

Christmas Eve, Elijah and Joel drifted to sleep without seeming excessively excited that the next day was Christmas. Christmas day was amazing and eventful and I thought for sure the kids would pass out at the first touch of their heads to their pillows but Joel kept getting in and out of bed, wiggling and acting as I thought he might act on Christmas eve. So I asked him why he wasn't able to sleep and he sat up straight, opened his eyes wide and said, "I can't sleep because now I'm too excited about Easter!"

About Me

Millersville, Missouri, United States
I am married to my prince charming and am a homeschooling, stay-at-home mom to our three young sons, Elijah (6), Joel (4) and Izaac (1). I live on sixty acres and love to hike/explore, write, read, paint, laugh and eat at Panera Bread. Some of my most favorite things to do are: lead worship, spend time alone with God, teach and be with my family.